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Moral intelligence in children


Moral intelligence consists of the personal, social, mental, emotional, and moral skills that make up solid character and guide moral behaviors. It is what your child needs most to counter negative pressures and do what's right with or without your guidance. Here's a quiz to assess how well your child is developing this essential IQ that he'll need for living ethically in today's troubling times.


Answer with a Yes or No
My child (without adult reminders or coaxing) regularly:

  • Shows sensitivity and has a lot of feeling for others.
  • Tries to see things from the other person's view, not just his own.
  • Is honest and trustworthy; can be counted on to keep his word.
  • Feels shame or guilt about his wrong actions; accepts the blame.
  • Easily calms down when excited or angry; copes with behavioral impulses
  • Behaves appropriately without reminders; thinks before acting.
  • Treats everyone respectfully and courteously; no back talk or sass.
  • Shares, helps, or comforts others without expecting something in return.
  • Is open-minded: listens to all sides before forming opinions.
  • Focuses on the positive traits of others instead of their differences.
  • Tries to solve problems fairly and peacefully; willing to compromise.

If you checked less than 8 "yes" it means your child's moral IQ could use some boosting. And the best news is that this intelligence can be taught. Building Moral Intelligence shows you simple, proven ways you can enhance this marvelous capacity in your child. It's never too early-or late-to begin.


Source: familyresource

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